Living The Unscripted Life.
Can we just live our lives? It's funny how we have been conditioned to live a certain way or achieve certain within specific age brackets, can we just take life one day at a time and just live in the moment, please?
I come from a society where your every move is being monitored and your achievement is measured by your age, for instance, a spinster who is yet to be married at the age of 30 is often seen as a failure and the bachelor who hasn't owned his apartment and fleet of cars at the age of 30 is seen as lazy, this has caused many youth to be depressed and jump into the illegal act to please the society.
Many ladies have jumped into marriages which are toxic just to satisfy society, funny enough even after marriage one is also pressured to have kids, have more kids and have more kids and the pressure continues in other spheres of life, can we just live our lives and not live it to impress the street?
Can we make decisions for ourselves that bring us peace and true happiness regardless of how society may tag it?
Can we just walk according to our pace and realize that everyone has gotten their timeline?
Can we just breathe, please? It's funny how people aren't acknowledging the effort we are putting in place to live a decent and meaningful life but they just judge us by the outcome of our struggles.
I read that, the mighty do not always win the battle and I know for sure that the swift do not often win the race, so life will surely get in the way, everyone wants a better life don't we?
But when life brings us lemon, it's time to pause breathe find a way out and just live our lives.
T.I Ft Rihanna - Live Your Life
If you want to be happy, stop paying attention to what people say about you, bear in mind that only the living can be talked about and so it's only normal to hear people's opinions about your life, know that this life you've got is just one and you die once, so make everyday count and live it to the fullest.
Whatever brings your soul peace and true happiness please find it and stick with it.
Whatever makes you fulfilled please entertain it.
Half of the people talking about your every action might not survive one day if they ever walk in your shoes, so rock your shoes well darling.
It takes a lot to be you, it takes strength to be you, nobody can rock your shoe better than you do it.
While hoping for the best focus on what you can do to improve your life, are you looking for a job, why not hone the skills which you have at the moment and live in the moment?
Are you looking for a suitable mate, why not try so hard to be your spec's spec by developing outstanding qualities that will endear you to such a person when the time is right, why not focus on the moment and make every moment count before it's gone?
Rather than focusing on what's going south, focus on what's going right and ways you can improve and stay positive while at it.
Keep your worry at bay, why worry? Can it even add a cubit to your lifespans? Let go of what you have no control over. Life is full of uncertainties, acknowledge that first rather than living in self-denial, embrace change, and try to find or create happiness in every phase of life you find yourself.
Can we take a breathing exercise at this point? In.... Out!!! Let it all go, and enjoy the beautiful things of life.
Music is a good way to let it all out, slam your favourite music, shut the noise out and just know that so long as the sunshine after the rain falls, everything will fall in place after the storm.
Thank you for stopping by, till we meet again, this is Amie Geoffrey.
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