Heart2ink by Amie

When you were less nobody settled for you, why do you want to settle for less?  Isn't pathetic to know that people of late, are now very comfortable with bare minimum. Especially in relationships and friendships. Love, respect, reciprocity are just bare minimum. They are served on a genuine table of love and friendship. Isn't it sad to know that people take it as a plus that there partners actually call them everyday. Hold on.. How do you say you love a person when you don't communicate with them on a daily? I know everyone is busy, but in all honesty, everyone makes out time for things and people that matter to them. Even in the busiest days, I find myself thinking about my loved ones and it takes less than a minute to send them a very short message, reminding them they mean a lot to me. So anyone who's too excited that there partner actually cares, and doing something extra ordinary is just settling for bare minimum. Trust is another bare minimum, you don't need t...

You meet someone new and start to have this tingling feeling in your stomach, it's the butterflies fluttering and maybe you feel you're in love. Well, no doubt love at first sight exists, simply because we are attracted to that person and have this instant connection with that person just immediately we set our eyes on them. Many times, we all fall in love with a very cute baby, maybe the way they smile or how their hair is curled, or even their skin color, make us attracted to them and then we love them instantly. Often too, we meet someone and it feels like we've known them all our lives, those too can be classified as love at first sight. But the question is; 2️⃣Do you believe in love at first sight? I believe there's a difference between Love, attraction, and Lust. Attraction is what appeals to our mind and eyes immediately, there is no way we talk to someone or even listen to someone whom we are not attracted to in the first place. Why do you think someone stares a...

How do you know when you are in love? What are the signs? Source Love is a very beautiful feeling and being in love is the most amazing feeling ever. Suddenly, you're seeing someone new and you connected and talk almost every day, how do you know it's love? Here is what you should be looking for; You look forward to hearing from them every time, they become your happy place. You spend most of your time with them. Source You are willing to compromise to accommodate them. You think of them always. When you see someone coming too close you feel jealous. You share your moments with them,(how your day went, your wins and challenges). You feel protective of them and you feel like taking away their pain. You know you're in love when you can't imagine your life moving forward without that person in it. Being in love is a state of bliss, joy, and comfort. It is beyond buying or sharing the gift, sharing chats and emojis, it is deep intimacy. Love is feeling what the other person...

Here's my 2cent on what to do to avoid being scammed online. Please read to the end. Image  source Since romance scams are on the rise here's a list of what to do. Image  source 1. Avoid blind dating.  Women are mostly cajoled by what they hear, the men sweet coat their words to win a place in a woman's heart while Men are mostly cajoled by what they see, their predators may upload a picture of a banging body, so both genders need to guard their hearts jealously, creating a sort of wall not to be cajoled by simply what they hear or see from a total stranger. Ask to meet in person, before giving it a shot and demand face time often. If they avoid meeting in person or face time? They are scammers. Image  source 2. Do not share personal or sensitive information about yourself. This part is very important, when you tell a stranger who is a scammer how successful you are or how wealthy you are, you are at a very big risk of getting scammed. Don't be too quick to share whe...