You Deserve Better
Isn't pathetic to know that people of late, are now very comfortable with bare minimum.
Especially in relationships and friendships. Love, respect, reciprocity are just bare minimum. They are served on a genuine table of love and friendship.
Isn't it sad to know that people take it as a plus that there partners actually call them everyday. Hold on.. How do you say you love a person when you don't communicate with them on a daily? I know everyone is busy, but in all honesty, everyone makes out time for things and people that matter to them.
Even in the busiest days, I find myself thinking about my loved ones and it takes less than a minute to send them a very short message, reminding them they mean a lot to me. So anyone who's too excited that there partner actually cares, and doing something extra ordinary is just settling for bare minimum.
Trust is another bare minimum, you don't need to force it. Because your partner trust you, doesn't mean they are doing something extra, it's part of the relationship code.
I know, some people have been in toxic relationships where these things now feel like the other person is doing them a favor. And, fear of being alone again, makes people settle for less. They just want to be tagged as a person who is in a relationship, so they prioritize that, over their actual well-being.
It's a reminder to know your worth andworth andworth and also figure out that you deserve better. "There's love at home." Where you have to force people to do the things they should actually be doing, you are settling for the bare minimum.
Figure out yourself first, what you deserve, and choose someone who's willing to do them for you effortlessly. Heal first from your past relationships, especially from the one that left you broken, feeling worthless or small.
When you heal, you see better, you know better, and you attract better.
No doubt, some people go extra miles to show you how much you mean to them; that shouldn't go unnoticed.
Appreciate people who take initiative to meet your needs (emotional or otherwise) without being asked.
People that support your goals and push you beyond your limitations, people who root for you, want to see you win all the time, and make an effort to show you they appreciate you.
Effort is indeed sexy. Just make sure they are showing effort every day and choosing you over and over again. Don't take for granted people who make you feel safe around them, and whatever you do, never settle for the bare minimum.
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