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Never let the child in you die.

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Source I see freedom I see peace I see happiness I see forgiveness, I see kindness I see contentment. I feel children are the best gift in the world. I feel a house without children isn't home. I feel we could take a lesson from this picture. I feel if we have the heart of children, the world will be a better place! Lessons Children take one day at a time. They do not hold on to resentment. They are content and make do with what they have. Do you let the child in you alive? Many of us all let the child in us die because we want to be looked upon as mature adults. How do you let the child in you alive? Live in the moment, cherish every moment in your life and live it to the full. We should learn to accept life just as it is, and take it one day at a time. Enjoy the simple things of life (family, friends, and nature). Do things that make you truly happy. Love unconditionally. Be kind at heart, and learn to use the five magic words; please, excuse me, sorry, thank you, and pardon me. ...

Is love enough to sustain a relationship?

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This is the link to part 1, in case you missed the story. Click here for Part 1 There are two sides to a story. My name is Jeremy and this is my story. I met Cheryl sometime in November, she was a very vibrant and fun person to be with, I was an introvert while she was more of an ambivert. During our journey, I learned how to communicate a lot, one thing I admired about her was how she would "say it, just how she felt it". Cheryl came into my life when I had been a bachelor for a very long time, I had to unlearn being alone, you see, I was never a fan of love, I had so many short-term relationships, and though a part of me wanted to experience real love while the other part of me was not ready for all of that. We started as very good friends, Cheryl was a very loving lady, she would always check up on me and I loved that a lot. She was the First Lady I have ever had long conversations with, I started to like the fact that I could come out of my shell and I started getting use...

How to avoid being a victim of romance scam.

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Here's my 2cent on what to do to avoid being scammed online. Please read to the end. Image  source Since romance scams are on the rise here's a list of what to do. Image  source 1. Avoid blind dating.  Women are mostly cajoled by what they hear, the men sweet coat their words to win a place in a woman's heart while Men are mostly cajoled by what they see, their predators may upload a picture of a banging body, so both genders need to guard their hearts jealously, creating a sort of wall not to be cajoled by simply what they hear or see from a total stranger. Ask to meet in person, before giving it a shot and demand face time often. If they avoid meeting in person or face time? They are scammers. Image  source 2. Do not share personal or sensitive information about yourself. This part is very important, when you tell a stranger who is a scammer how successful you are or how wealthy you are, you are at a very big risk of getting scammed. Don't be too quick to share whe...

The fear of the unknown.

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"This weekend I decided that never again shall I fear failure or rejection in a job interview." Maryann has been a teacher for the past 10 years, she has always taught her children the value of self-esteem and confidence, stepping out of their comfort zone, and taking calculated risks. Though she's a teacher, she has other wealth of profession to bank on. She is a fashion designer and a graphic designer. She has always had the urge to better her life in the best way possible. She does this by always striving to learn new skills now and then. Now, it is time to put into practice all she has taught her children,  the value of confidence and taking calculated risks Image  source She started to submit her curriculum vitae to reputable firms. She was tired of the teaching profession, she wanted to explore other talents and skills she had. She was ready to step out of her comfort zone. Image  source She referred to the teaching profession as her "comfort zone" because...