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Hello Music Lovers... What a blissful Tuesday it is over here, and I am sure you're having a great one over there too. It's another beautiful music day so let's enjoy.     . Learning is a continuous process and never stops until our last breath.. sometimes we just need to learn to be who we desire in others, or we learn to let people treat us the way we would loved to be treated, we learn to love ourselves as hard as we love others. Still learning - Halsey We all have insecurities we battle with, that no one knows about, but all in all, if we can be kind to ourselves and love ourselves despite it all we can empower ourselves to have a full control over our lives. We really need to stop living in oblivion or self-denial, being aware of our flaws can set us free and help us to accept who we are. Nobody's life is perfect and our little flaws makes us beautiful in our own way. We just have to learn to be our own kind of beautiful, that's why we just can't give out l

๐‘จ๐’๐’ ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’” ๐‘ญ๐’‚๐’…๐’†๐’”...๐‘ญ๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’˜๐’†๐’๐’!

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This night will usher in a new season, "Autumn is just by the corner," I mumbled as the last night of summer brought made me nostalgic and emotional. The night sky was still aglow with sun lingering to leave, I noticed the change in the air, and how the night was a bit chilly, I could perceive the scent of dry leaves, riped fruits and how the sounds of the chirping cricket filled the air. I sat quietly in my balcony reminiscing about the whole fun and adventures I embarked on during the early days of summer. More to that, the wealth of knowledge I had acquired from older family members. The one I loved the most was the one I spent with Grandpa Donald, such a wise, strong and vibrant man who taught me the value of time and what good friends stand for. "They stick by you in good times or bad times, Zainab who is your friend?" The voice from within echoed. I remember vividly how we took a stroll to Tamara resort that fateful day, the sun was out in all its glory painti

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘พ๐’‰๐’š๐’” ๐‘จ๐’๐’… ๐‘ฐ๐’-๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’•๐’˜๐’†๐’†๐’

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"We are responsible for what we say but we are not responsible for what people understand,"  ever heard a statement like that? The truth is, people will surely misunderstand our words and even our actions or intention, but what matter the most is that, whatever we are doing, we are doing with a clean heart. I believe in doing right by our conscience and leaving the things we have little or no control over. Well, some people might want to take it as a point of duty to always explain their actions and motive, but how many can you explain, and can you really explain to everyone? Will they all believe? You see why I do not try to get a grip on what I have no control over? Nina Simone - Misunderstood This is a very classic music I heard just a few days back and I enjoyed it, it is very relatable and i felt it from a different angle. The music itself speaks volume how much the singer yearned empathy and to be understood. it more like a country tune and the lyrics aligns with what m

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ญ๐’๐’Š๐’‘ ๐‘บ๐’Š๐’…๐’† ๐‘ถ๐’‡ ๐‘บ๐’๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’ ๐‘ด๐’†๐’…๐’Š๐’‚

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A popular network provider in my country once said "Data is life," and I agree with them. Having data has made it much more easier to access social media at the snap of our fingers, and in all honesty social media has played numerous roles in our lives however, they have their pros and cons. Before we talk about the pros and cons, I find it right to first mention some social media I know about, we have telegram, Instagram, Facebook, X (formerly twitter), Youtube, Linkedin, Reddit, WhatsApp and the list is endless. A lot of people have just a few of them while others have almost all of them, for me, I have just a few of them and I have reasons for it. First of all, Social media has made it easier for us to access the world and be in the know with what is happening around the world even without crossing borders. It has also made it easier for people to connect with their friends home and abroad and some have also earned a living through the use of social media, like the content

๐‘พ๐’‰๐’†๐’ ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’๐’Š๐’†๐’—๐’†

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As humans, we are sometimes perplexed when it feels like we are faced with a very difficult situation, many though lose hope and give up along the line, but are there ways we can strengthen hope? Hope is an act of mindfulness, it requires a constant effort to strengthen it and gratitude is the first step to maintaining hope. This is because gratitude makes it easy for you to appreciate what you've gotten while looking ahead to much more better days. I have a friend who almost gave up on life, he hated the fact that things weren't going on well with him, everyday he complained bitterly about his current situation and that left him sad all the time. One day, I thought of ways to help him revive his hope, so I asked, "have you ever thought about the things that are working well for you and the things you've got that you cherish?" That left him with some moment of reflection and then I told him to write down what's he's grateful for no matter how little it was

๐‘จ ๐‘ฎ๐’๐’Š๐’Ž๐’‘๐’”๐’† ๐‘ถ๐’‡ ๐’€๐’๐’–...

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It was a very beautiful Tuesday evening, the sea had already turned aqua blue, and the waves of the ocean roared, suddenly, I heard my name. "Sheila.." A soothing voice called out to me while I was taking a walk on the beach, and when I turned around, there was a 6ft tall dark cute macho with well groomed beard right behind me, he wore a denim jeans and white Tee shirt, "Goddamn," I mumbled, he looked so cute and simple. "Hey.. How did you know my name?" I startled a bit wearing a mischievous smile, as I walked closer, I focused my gaze on his hazel eyes "Excuse me Mr...have we met before?" "No, not really, I heard someone calling your name a minute ago, I wanted to tell you that your money had fallen off your pocket, here it is," He looked away almost immediately, handing me my $5 note which had fallen off my pocket. "Oh, thanks a bunch, what a good Samaritan you are, you already know my name, so, may I ask.. what your name is?&qu